8ob
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Intent vs effect.
if I ask ‘why don’t you do it this way?’
Some people go their whole lives wondering why people dislike them because they can’t see what they meant wasn’t how it sounded. And that’s not the listeners problem.
"why don’t you do it this way" May offend whereas " is there a reason it cant be done like this" may not.
Bob