marlinspike
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When our dad started suffering from dementia we got him a big phone. Easy to dial and has three buttons on the top that you programme - if he wants you he just has one button to press.
In regard to his medication, some pharmacies will prepare his weekly medication, with his morning, afternoon & evening meds in separate blister packs on a card. It means he doesn't have to fumble with separate packages, or try to remember what to take when. It's just a matter of opening one blister pack at each mealtime & the correct meds are there.
Personally very wary of social services, when my father got a bit on the deaf side, called them in to see about fitting an induction loop to listen to the TV via his hearring aid. First question on arrival was how much was his house worth!You can get in touch with social services, welfare etc. to arrange an assessment meeting at the the house, they are very good and will take him through daily tasks like making a meal & drinks etc., getting dressed, taking meds on time, from the assessment they can put a care plan in place and tell you what support you can get, both physical & financial.
Personally very wary of social services, when my father got a bit on the deaf side, called them in to see about fitting an induction loop to listen to the TV via his hearring aid. First question on arrival was how much was his house worth!
RonA
You are dead right there! I've had the same before when he fell over two years ago. "Does he own his own house?" Yeah and he's bloody well keeping it!
Went to see him today and he didn't really say much, just stared at me.
Hospital's making him worse?
If it gets to that I'll renovate it and rent it out to pay the costs of the old peoples home!
I might have missed making my point, what I meant to try and point out was that I gained the impression that the Probate bloke and the rest of the people I was dealing with all had a "system" in that they were used to dealing with "legal eagles" and a sort of old boy network, a layman coming in was frowned upon as no under the counter deals could be struck.
I might have missed making my point, what I meant to try and point out was that I gained the impression that the Probate bloke and the rest of the people I was dealing with all had a "system" in that they were used to dealing with "legal eagles" and a sort of old boy network, a layman coming in was frowned upon as no under the counter deals could be struck.
Ie, solicitor tells you its the best deal you''ll get after agreeing it with the agency- cos his fees have to come out of it as well, so the agency get an uncontested sum and their books look good, and the legal lizard gets his money.
I stress thats my impression though.