I know this is late - but I have walked that road - its hard - and I feel for you.Sitting with Mom... At 63 I have learnt a lot since a week yesterday. And it's not good...my sister and her daughter have been here all week. My son managed to give them a break one night but due to my wife's care needs I can't stay over.
After seeing what they have for a week they decided to fast track mom home. So have gone to Dad's to ready the bedroom for mom. Maybe hours maybe days but my Dad is too ill to get here and he feels helpless.
Let's put it like this if those" enranged" at seeing a footballer kick and slap a cat could see what they do when your dying they would be....@#$%^$#&%$#% .
Well they probably wouldn't......but they should be..